Monday 14 January 2019

GETTING OLDER:

GETTING OLDER:
My mother grew old "Gracefully".
Wish I could say the same.
I find the ageing process most upsetting.
It's certainly not a game.

I take a peep in the mirror.
A stranger stares back at me.
I have more tramlines than San Fransico,
For all the world to see.

Then there are the health issues,
One can't get the treatment one needs.
You visit your friendly doctor,
Who certainly don't take heed.

Loneliness is another thing
That happens as the years proceed.
You try to make friends but get ignored.
Not the sort of feeling one needs.

But there is a lighter side.
When all is said and done.
I have wonderful memories.
When life was a ball having fun.

The happiness my children brought.
As they progressed through the changes of life.
When my son's became a husband,
My daughter became a wife.

Recently I lost my youngest son,
That certainly was not in life's plan.
I miss the phone and text messages,
From that fine young man.

So as this new week starts.
Positivity is still on the cards.
That life will become easier.
And not so terribly hard.

Yvonne Lewis: 14/01/2019:


18 comments:

  1. My Dear Yvonne, I am so sorry for your suffering. I wish I could comfort your sweet-self. Did you not grow up in Bournemouth to still have Friends? I know you live around undesirable people so are not out to make Friends in your Neighbourhood. Blessings to you my blogging Friend. Take good and gentle care. Love love, Andrew.

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    1. Thanks Andrew for comment, I was brought up at Bristol, moved to Weymouth with my husband and young family. after I was widowed lived in N. Ireland and Spain until I came to Bournemouth 11 yrs ago to set up home with a new man but he was not nice to know as I found out, Have been completely on my own these past four years.

      Yvonne.

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  2. good memories and lots of knowledge come with age. And growing old "ain't for sissies" as Bette Davis said. Have a good week

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    1. I have the memories.....don't know about the knowledge.
      Thanks for coming by Joanne.

      Yvonne.

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  3. I realized a while ago there aren't too many upsides to getting older. But you have named a few.

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    1. Only the tip of the ice berg Alex.
      Have a great week.

      Yvonne.

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  4. Hi, Yvonne! You have my sympathy and best wishes. Getting older is definitely not easy! I keep fighting the good fight, but I'm slowly losing. I remember attending the 80th birthday party for Watson Kirkconnell, the retired President of Acadia University. I never forgot him saying that each decade of his life was better than the last, so he was looking forward to his 80s. I've tried to live that way, enjoying each season of my life. Sadly WK died at 81, but I'm betting he was anticipating the next journey with optimism. The hardest thing is the loss of family and friends. I find comfort in preserving and sharing their stories and in my memories. Their love is with me always. May the love of your husband and son wrap you in its arms! Sending you a hug!

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    1. Thank you Fundy Blue for your most informative and lovely comment. Life sure get confusing at times me still wanting to do the things I used to do then find I can't do them because the mediacal profession holds me back.
      Loved last line moved me deeply.

      Yvonne.

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  5. Some people don't even have the memories, so that's a blessing.

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    1. Thank you Diane for the visit and pointing the obvious out.
      Enjoy this new week.

      Yvonne.

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  6. The years do go by fast and the hair gets grayer. But the memories are with me forever. I'm thankful for my present life too, the ladies in my Sunday School Class, my kitties, and the dog. I think I've discovered why God sent me this crazy dog. To teach me to be grateful for what I have. He accepts his life, without a complaint. I should do the same. I hope your 2019 brings you happiness, Yvonne, and all good things. God bless.

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    1. Many thanks Beverly you always have some wise comments to make and it helps me quite a bit.

      Yvonne.

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  7. Memories and being positive are wins indeed. But yeah, age mostly sucks.

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    1. Thanks Pat, in total agreement with you.

      Yvonne.

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  8. As the saying goes, 'getting old is not for sissies.' I hope your cat is keeping you some company.

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    1. I've never heard of that saying Susan. Yes, Tennessee keeps me company but he is not my cat he belongs to a person a few doors away who is either sleeping by day and working by night.I just keep an eye on him and vice versa.

      Yvonne.

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  9. I know what you mean about it seeming hard as we grow old. I feel it too sometimes and see it with my mom and her friends. It can be lonely. I hope you have a good week though and find some good friends to hang out with. I'm planning to.

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    1. I don't live in a very good area to make friends and because I have to wait for my hospital treatment can't go travelling about hence the loneliness.
      Enjoy your week Natalie.

      Yvonne.

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